With National Orgasm Day just around the corner, what better time to convince you men to purchase some sex toys so they are guaranteed to arrive in your post box just in time for this vibrating day.
Sex toys are not only for women. And they are neither unnecessary nor harmful. Unless, of course, you accidentally mistake them for some unusual culinary utensils and end up crafting a truly one-of-a-kind recipe that no one will ever forget. By all means, spice up your cooking, but maybe not that way!
On top of that, there is a whole world of benefits waiting for you when recognising the importance of sexual wellness and the perks that come with embracing regular, healthy sex.
So, let’s delve deeper into the benefits of masturbatory aids.
As the Chief Marketing Officer at the sex toy brand LELO, Mr Matutinović claims, studies have shown that sex activates neurotransmitters in our minds and bodies. Hormones like oxycontin (the love hormone) and dopamine (the happy hormone) are released when having sex.
“Sex reduces stress and anxiety, boosts the immune system and improves sleep.
“Moreover, sexual wellness is just as important for our physical health as it is for our mental health as it can boost self-esteem and body positivity, intimacy with a partner, stimulate the brain, boost energy levels, improve your mood and have you enjoy life more. For men and women.”
He explains how research has shown that when it comes to prostate massage, almost three-quarters of men are open to trying it and 8 out of 10 women are happy to perform it.
“Matter of fact, prostate orgasms are 33% more intense than penile orgasms, and it can make erections bigger as well as orgasms more ‘explosive’.”
It is important to keep in mind that everything has a different sensation and purpose. And if you’ve never explored the options of masturbatory aids before – the options can be overwhelming.
For those who are keen to experiment with sex toys but are feeling shy, Lipski says it often depends on what kind of experience you want.
“You might want to try a vibrating pleasure ring that can stimulate the penis as well as the clitoris during partnered play, a gentle prostate toy to dip your toe into anal play, or a masturbation sleeve that can elevate your solo play.
“If you’re feeling shy, start with something that isn’t too expensive or intimidating, but that eases you into being more curious about your own pleasure, and always read the reviews.”